В©2018 artsaliveraleigh.com - 9 Jul 2013 I personally am not against 16 year olds dating guys in their early 20s as long as it's legal in their area. . My husband is older than me (don't worry, I was well past 18 when we met) and I like that he is EDIT: The following is as was described to me by a lawyer in California. . But if it's 16 I'd roll with it.